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I’m secretly a white girl who appropriates black culture in a black woman’s body. I am Miley Cyrus.
While you losers are being pressed as paninis I’ve been making that bread. I would write something eloquent and coherent but you roaches are not worthy. I’ve got better things to do. For all the people that I trust if you want to see my new blog feel free to send me an ask. Warning I’ve changed a lot. It’s kind of shocking myself. I’ve kind of found a new community on tumblr but you’re welcome to still contact me.
Here’s where the current bullshit started. It only got worse from here.
Image One: On August 21, 2012 I wrote a post about bullying. One that I’d hoped would help a few specific people who’d, at the time, had been going through a lot and talking with me through fan mail. This was also the day that I finally blocked ImSoAppalled/TupacDied4OurSins. I remember this particular day so specifically because I’d been trying to help a few different people (as much as I could) through some truly horrific times. When I saw, yet another, attack from this person, I’d had enough. Up to this point, it was a regular occurrence that she (I’m not sure of the pronouns, if she is wrong, please let me know so that I may correct) would constantly reblog my posts accusing me of bullying people. The problem is, I’d never said a word to this girl. No, not even once. In addition, I’d never said a word about this girl. Not even once. As of August 21, 20012, this had been going on for approximately six month. For the entirety of those six months, I’d said nothing about the situation. I continuously ignored her and her non-stop harassment.
Image Two: By July 18, 2013, things had still not changed. My posts were still consistently being reblogged only to have this person talk about what a bully I was and I’d continued to ignore her. It was this post itself that caused me to finally speak up. This happened as many people were feeling like they could talk about abuse they’ve received by certain people on this site. The very fact, that one of the people who’d been abusive to me, was still calling me a bully and harassing non stop all under the guise of “Stopping abuse” and being “Concerned about the victims” was just too much. She saw and continues to see no irony in the fact that I am her victim.
Image Three: I’d only known the person in question as RamenNoodleStoodle and ImSoAppalled. I wasn’t completely sure that TupacDied4OurSins was the same person but I had a feeling, based on what was being said, that they were. I grew angry at what I was being accused of. Specifically the fact that I was being accused of being a bully by MY bully. Either way, I wanted to point out that I was being asked when I was going to apologize but I HAD apologized to those I’d hurt. As you’ll soon see, the apology she feels is owed, is to her. Yes, my ABUSER believes I owe HER an apology….and she is not the only one.
Image Four: As part of my own growth, I first make an attempt to speak to someone to see if the issues at hand can be worked out. Now, in this case I was the abused victim. Yet it was me, not Ramen/Appalled/Died4, who made the attempt to clear the air. It was me, the abused, who made every attempt to end this non stop abuse train. As you can see, I didn’t just go to MY ABUSER trying to see if whatever issues she had with me could be worked out, I also went with no aggressive words or tone as to not seem angry. Although, I was TRULY raging at having my bully tell me I needed to apologize to my victims, all the while being a victim of this person myself. Now, her reply was one of the most disgusting I’ve seen. As she is, in fact, my abuser-having her talk of being “Tired” of abusers and those who support abusers was foul, to say the least. The interesting thing you’ll find is her very first line. It’s one she’s claiming justifies her actions. The “Black American and their privilege incident.” Know what’s interesting about this particular incident? I was not present for it nor did I even know about it until weeks after it happened. So just to be clear, one of the reasons she lists for her attacks is something that I had nothing to do with, did not participate in AND was not here for as it happened when I was on one of my hiatus’. Unfortunately, she also states that she felt that by my saying EVERYONE WHO BULLIED should be held accountable, even if they were victims as well, I was telling those abused how to act. As a person who was both a bully AND bullied, I believe I should be held accountable for my actions as a bully. Ramen on the other hand, believes making me a victim is perfectly acceptable because of who my friends are. Nothing more, nothing less. Simply because of who I stand near in the cafeteria. Which is basically what her “Reasoning” comes down to…but you’ll see a LOT of that as I post more.
Image Five: My ABUSER tells me that they can’t “Trust” me. MY-ABUSER. Seriously, this is how these people think. At this point, I wasn’t sure on what the “Incident” in image four was and I later had to ask people if they could clear things up, which was when I found out that-low and behold-I had literally NOTHING to do with this situation. So far, my ABUSER has justified her actions against me by saying that I hang with abusers and that I liked certain posts. To add insult to injury, my ABUSER states that I don’t need to “Shit on” them like that. Yes, this is coming from MY ABUSER.
Image Six: Next, I made one last ditch effort to fully explain why I felt she was abusive to me as well as explaining my perceptive on the entire situation. The private post can be read in full here. I even went so far as to extend and even LONGER olive branch by saying that the first time I personally remember her attacking me was on that post about bullying. Of course nothing could be further from the truth but I made this statement because I chose to believe that if I’d explained to her why that particular post and her reply to it was so deeply hurtful, she would apologize and I would choose to completely forget everything that she’d done before that post. As you’ll see, giving an olive branch to someone who is already bullying you for months and months on end is simply asking to receive a broken branch in return.
Image Seven: This is the private post that was her reply to mine. Notice that the first thing stated by my ABUSER is that I’m being defensive. Imagine that. Dealing with someone who’s been abusive for what is now, a year and half, called me defensive. Wow! She ends this disgusting post by saying, “Stop trying to shame me for being upset and angry over the abuse I’ve suffered.” I found this line particularly disgusting as she was talking to one of her many VICTIMS and on top of that, the abuse she’s suffered has not ONCE been caused by me. So the idea that it’s okay for her to take out her anger ON me is truly vile.
Image Eight: In comes Sav. She just “Felt like” she had to speak up. She openly admits that she told my ABUSER to tell me to leave her alone. Yes, that is how her fucking sick and evil messages start. She not only stands up for my ABUSER, not only protects my ABUSER but actually tells my ABUSER to tell ME to leave her alone. That level of sickness only gets worse as this entire situation moves forward. So after being harassed by my ABUSER for over a year, Sav decides that when I FINALLY, after all this time, address the situation, she states that my “Response was way too out of proportion.” No, this is not made up. This is literally what someone who sided with the person who’s been harassing me for over a year said to the victim of a bully. She ends this particularly vicious message by saying that there was “No need” to yell at people who are suspicious of me, “For good reason.” Once again, this is being said TO THE VICTIM ABOUT THEIR ABUSER. She believes that the VICTIM has no “Need” to yell and the ABUSER has every right to be “Suspicious.” On top of all this, you can see what was actually said. Where was the yelling? How could I have done ANYTHING differently with Ramen? Seriously, I literally tried to speak to my BULLY only to be called a bully for trying to end this non stop bullshit. But this was only the beginning…
Image Nine: This message, just…there’s so much. First, Sav’s statement that she “Did me wrong too” was the understatement of the year. This person gave an apology for a single incident when there are a LEAST three that happened before all this started that she owed apologies for. Then, the “Comparing victim’s reactions to abuse” thing…fucking WOW! Remember, she is saying this TO A VICTIM while defending the victim’s BULLY. The list in question, literally had nothing to do with Ramen. Nothing at all. Why not end here with saying, “You are not in the right here?” After all, she sends yet ANOTHER message a few seconds later.
Image Ten: This contains Sav’s third message as well as the beginning of my reply. She starts this hateful message off by saying I’m acting like Riley. Amazing. She then states that I can’t be reasoned with. Me, the person who WENT TO ME ABUSER to try to get things worked out, can’t be reasoned with. Fucking seriously? I lost her respect because of my defensive behavior. Do I even need to say anything about that sentence? This is the fucking mind set of this monster. The beginning of my reply is below Sav’s message and you can see the rest on part two.
Wahhh my name is racismschool and I’m a salty brat. No one is bullying your basic ass, no one is coming for you especially not me. I barely blog anymore but your bored ass had nothing better to do and had to put my pretty name in your mouth. Get over yourself and get a life. There’s more to life than fucking tumblr drama
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